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“Should I have a first look?” with Rebecca Lynne Photography, CT wedding photographer
Couples have asked me this question several times since becoming a wedding photographer. It’s 2019 and things are different in the wedding world. Brides are ditching their veils, skipping the garter toss, swapping out cake for donuts… and having first looks!
So, what is a first look?
A “first look” is when a couple sees each other on their wedding day before their wedding ceremony. It is a private moment between the couple, away from the eyes of friends and family.
First looks are a great chance to soak up some intimate time together on your wedding day, but first looks aren’t for everyone.
Let’s take a look at the pros and cons to help you with your decision.
Pro: Get those tears out of the way before the ceremony
I can’t guarantee that your wedding ceremony won’t have emotional moments, but by seeing each other in advance of the ceremony, you’ll have the opportunity to remove some of the stress, fears, jitters, and nerves before you walk down the isle. It will give you a chance to have an intimate moment before all eyes are on you during the ceremony.
Con: A first look may water down the experience of walking down the aisle
Memorialized in films and TV shows and even in our memories of others’ weddings, walking down the isle to greet an emotional partner is something many engaged couples have looked forward to. While a pre-ceremony first look doesn’t mean that you won’t walk down the aisle, it might make the moment a bit less emotional.
Pro: Enjoy a private moment before wedding frenzy commences
While a wedding day is an occasion you want to share with your closest friends and family, the intimate moments of quiet with your love on your wedding day can be few and far between. A first look is definitely one of those intimate moments. Beyond being a time to see your beloved, it is an opportunity to share an embrace, get out the wedding day jitters, and even exchange gifts.
Con: Missing out on the first time you see each other being a part of the wedding ceremony
For some couples, the ritual of the wedding ceremony and greeting your partner at the end of the isle is as important a part of the ceremony as any other reading or symbolic activity that happens during the wedding. By choosing to skip a private, pre-ceremony first look, the moment when the couple meets for the first time on their wedding day becomes a part of their story that is shared with their beloved wedding guests.
Pro: Get the most of your planned photo list out of the way before the ceremony
It’s not uncommon for the guests of honor at a wedding to miss out on an hour or so of the wedding reception or cocktail hour. Photos of the couple, their wedding party and immediate family often suck up a ton of time in the space between the wedding ceremony and the wedding reception. One of the benefits of choosing a first look—you can snag those very important shots before the ceremony even begins. This way you have the opportunity to actually enjoy cocktail hour with your guests, stress-free.
Con: You’ll have to be up and ready to rock much earlier on your wedding day
Since a first look essentially pushes up your wedding timeline by a few hours, couples who choose a first look will need to be completely finished with any pre-wedding getting ready or set up much earlier. If you or your partner aren’t early risers or have a tendency to run super late, this could pose a big problem. Passing on a first look could mean that you, your partner and your wedding squad get to sleep in a little and observe a more traditional wedding day schedule.
So, do you think a first look on your wedding day is right for you?
ct wedding photographer, Rebecca Lynne specializes in ct wedding photography. Her authentic, fun, honest, and candid wedding photo style will document your wedding ceremony and reception as it truly unfolds. Documenting the big bold moments of your wedding, as well as the small intimate moments.
Paul and Talia’s fun engagement photography session in Killingworth, CT on a chilly Fall day.
I was so excited when Paul and Talia told me they wanted their fur babies to join in on some of the photo fun during their engagement session. The pups may have wanted to explore the park more than pose for photos, but they decided to join on the fun in the end.
I knew the perfect spot for a natural wooded location with tall trees as a backdrop to their engagement photos, just like they envisioned.
Couples may feel a little nervous at the very start of their session, it can feel a little weird to have a camera focused on you. Have no fear, my corny jokes and hilarious prompts with either loosen you guys up or help you bond over your mutual feeling of awkwardness at my expense…either way you nail the perfect laughing shot and I win. No but really, my sessions are just full of fun and focus on you two love birds enjoying your time together celebrating your love. No need for stiff poses or fake smiles.
I can not wait to photograph Paul and Talia’s backyard wedding this coming Fall in Milford, CT.
Scroll on down to view some of my favorite moments from this crazy cute engagement session.
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Jackie and Stefan’s late summer wedding day at Eolia Mansion located at Harkness Memorial State Park was intimate and full of love.
The stunning landscape of the Eolia Mansion garden was the perfect setting for Jackie and Stefan’s wedding ceremony. Located on the Connecticut shoreline, the scenery of Harkness Park makes for a picture perfect wedding venue.
Jackie and Stefan worked with me to create a wedding timeline that allowed them lots of time to be present with their friends and family during cocktail hour. Taking the time to slow down and soak up time with your loved ones is always something I always encourage my wedding couples to think about when we are creating a wedding day timeline.
From the simple and elegant wedding cake to the handmade doughnut tower and a reception filled with glow sticks and tons of dancing, Jackie and Stefan’s wedding day was filled with personal and unique touches and a crazy amount of love.
Jackie and Stefan’s intimate wedding day on the beautiful CT shoreline
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An intimate wedding surrounded by the closet of friends and loving family at Smith College located in Northampton Massachusetts.
The morning of Keri and Steven’s wedding was a total wash out. The heavy rain continued through their ceremony right up until they said “I do.” Not only did the rain come to an end just as their ceremony was ending, but the clouds moved away leaving us with the clearest blue sky for the rest of the evening.
Smith College Conference Center is located right near the gardens and green house which provided a gorgeous back drop to our bride and groom portraits. We spent time exploring the property while these two soaked up their time together.
And then it was time to party! Air guitar anyone?
Keri and Steven’s entire wedding day was full of laughs, positive vibes even through the storm, and over flowing with love!
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